Tuesday, 3 December 2013

The other side of Christmas


Finally Christmas season has come where every young and old enjoys this seasons of greetings. I am constrained to share a few thoughts which we seldom realize or question ourselves during this season. It may sound silly for some people but the other side of Christmas is practical and we need to ponder over it. Christmas is the season to share our love, concerns, care, peace, joy, etc. etc every good tiding. Let us see what happens on the other side of Christmas.
1.      Widows, widowers, orphans: During this festive season their only wish is “IF”. They wish for if their husband is there to comfort them, their wife is there to prepare best meal for them, their parents were there to buy them new cloths. They do not expect big things either. What do we do for them during this season? Yes, surely we cannot replace their loved ones yet we can still show our love to them. My dear wealthy people this is just for your information that these poor kids they admire the colorful package of gifts that you exchange among you, and most of all your beautiful decorated house, walls, trees within your campus. They don’t expect expensive gifts. Church, what do we really do for these people? Jesus mission is for the upliftment of the poor and down trodden but the paradox is on his (Jesus) birthday we fail to recognize the needs of the needy.
2.      Hospitals, Jail, Orphanage etc.: There are so many people who spend their Christmas in despair. They too wanted to enjoy but the circumstances do not permit. How many of us give thoughts to visit these people. There are some people and organizations that do commendable jobs and I appreciate for that, but in common it is seldom practiced. During Christmas many people especially youths and children go around caroling and raise funds. One day I asked to a certain group what was the purpose of raising fund, then they replied that it is for their picnic. “Oh my God” I wonder, if at all fund raising is necessary why don’t we raise fund and comfort these people in hospitals, jails and share the love of God? These are the people who need someone to come to their places, they cannot come to us. Jesus came to heal the sick, to give comfort to the destitute, to release the captives. What are we doing on his birthday?
3.      Poor neighbors and poor people in the church: God purposefully let coexist of both rich and poor in the society and it is God’s politics that the rich people can receive God’s blessing by helping the poor and needy (Mat. 19:21). Once I met one aunty who was collecting the used cloths from the relatives to give to some people. I appreciate her altruistic work but I asked her why not new cloths or at least good ones because some cloths were beyond repairable, she said “itu bi taikhan nimite khub ase” (This is good enough for them). My question is “is it taboo for the poor children to wear new cloths?” Just imagine the cost of the fire crackers (bomb) that you spend just to burst in the air. Yes it’s your money your wish, but have you ever give thoughts what kind of cloths is your neighbors children are wearing. Church, what have we done for the poor people in the church? Unfortunately they are the one who gets least share even during Christmas feast. No one bothers about their presence and absence rather we have more concern about the rich and influential people whether they are enjoying or not, what an irony it is?
4.      Servants and helpers at home: Jesus came to this earth to release the captives and freed the bondage of slavery. Christmas message is the message of liberty (Luke 4:18). On the other hand Christmas is the most hectic and most boredom seasons for the servants at home, why? You gather your family, friends, and loved ones and enjoy the feast but you never give thoughts that your servants are being pressurized. Yes, I do not demand for equal status but at least on this occasion why don’t you give a try to see how is your preparation taste like? Giving some rest to your servants on Christmas will be a great sermon on your part.
5.      Pollution: The fireworks, crackers, bomb gives much pollution. We do not see and touch the air therefore we do not realize how much we inhale it. It is a great threat not only for the human beings but all livestock’s and plants too. God assigned us to be the good stewards towards His creation (Gen. 1:26-30) but we instead of guarding them we are destroying them.
6.      Tragedy: Every year on the eve of Christmas accident takes place and most of the cases are recorded of rash driving with the influences of alcohol. Jesus came to give life but we took life, what is it? The worst tragedy is again loosing of souls especially youth. Many youth during this season get involves in unwanted activities, immoralities and go astray from God. The paradox here is Jesus came to save the lost souls but we lost the saved souls. My dear church leaders why don’t you do something to save both lives and souls of this generation.

The message of Christmas is expected to be full of love, joy, peace, etc. The sermon delivered in the church alone is not a Christmas message but we as Christians our life itself is a message. If we are for Christ where is the message of Christ in us? Just remember the other side of Christmas is always bitter. Let us not think only for ourselves but see what is going on besides us. Had Jesus not been born the world would have been still under the bondage of darkness but is he who changed the world history, let us be the agent of change.